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Most locals usually guess “Miguk" which means America and when I say “no, South Africa," they give me a perplexed look.
It's as if they're trying to connect the dots, like, "how did she end up all the way in South Korea." After a slight delay they respond with an “ahhh Africa." On a good day someone will say “ahhh, Nelson Mandela." Which leaves me hopeful; at least someone knows where I'm from.
I was overwhelmed by all the paperwork and the thought of leaving my old life behind to start a new one.I had an interesting encounter at the market in my old hometown in Jeollanamdo, I went to the market to buy some fish from the behind me who was about to touch my hair, her companion hit her hand and must've told her not to in Korean because she didn't end up touching my hair. How does one person ( an elderly person in a small town) know that touching my hair is inappropriate?I am not going to spend all of my days correcting every single person's behavior, it's tiring.I argue that there is no misunderstanding when it comes to being sexually inappropriate.Universally we all know what is ok and what is not ok.It's in women like Chisala, who possess this audacious command over our stories, that one can readily recognize her own power, her own "soft magic." Her voice encourages internal confrontation to take place.