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Still, we saw each other a few times, hooked up and spent some really amazing time together. We sent a couple messages back and forth over break, then out of the blue, she called me and asked for my thoughts on us being exclusive.
If it were today, I would have said “not at the moment” (in the nicest way possible), but for some reason I said, “Sure.
I needed to learn these life lessons and she wanted a different type of guy in her life.
So in your situation, I would recommend the same thing: A frank, to-the-point conversation – it’s not working anymore, I don’t see it getting better, you’re great, but I want to break up.
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I met her at a time in my life when I really wasn’t looking to date anyone.Long story short (too late), she left for the summer that year and then dumped me one week before she came back over the phone.She said she loved me, but it just wasn’t working anymore. Then I went out, got drunk with my buds and hooked up with the first girl I could find. In fact, it had almost nothing to do with my ex or the relationship and everything to do with how I thought of myself.If I had looked at the relationship itself clearly, I would have seen that it was a mediocre relationship that had some good moments at the beginning, but there was no future.Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to be that honest with myself.The key is to keep it light: just as you’d be creeped out by a guy who buys you an expensive ring three weeks in, he’ll be made just as uncomfortable (if not more) by a gift of matching “his and hers” bath towels for his apartment. For a relationship less than a month old, I recommend keeping your budget under $20.