Disappearing man dating
You just have to believe what you’ve seen and completely ignore his words. If you’re going to share it with someone, let it be with someone who is capable of going the distance. He’s the one with problem and you’re just a symptom of it.
Your goal isn’t to be in a relationship, but to be in healthy one that is best for you. Sil Lai Abrams is EBONY.com’s Relationship Expert and the author of No More Drama: 9 Simple Steps to Transforming a Breakdown into a Breakthrough and a board member of the National Domestic Violence Hotline.
A Relationship Magician has an audience of one, which is you.
People like to blame our low marriage rates on socioeconomic factors such as the high number of incarcerated Black men or the educational disparity between Black men and women.
But could the real reason be more emotionally driven?
Accepting that not every man is for you or that not every man will turn into a relationship is important in the dating world. If you feel anger when a man disappears on you, it’s pointless.
We can’t make men do anything they don’t want to do and if he goes poof, rest assured he isn’t wanting the same things you do.He knew he had reached the end of the relationship road…just never bothers to tell you this. He is not interested in a real relationship, no matter what he told you at the beginning.