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Saying “I just want to chat on here” is a red flag for me because it usually indicates the girl has been dishonest about something major.
Until I see someone in person or have compelling evidence (recent facebook photo) I can’t believe anything I see in an online dating profile.
In part 1 of her story, Finding Love after Obesity: One Patient’s Story, Jen candidly shares the steps she took to self awareness and self love after massive weight loss following her gastric sleeve surgery.
In part 2, Jen now shares how her newly gained self awareness and self love led her to happy dating relationships with men and eventually marriage.
So the fact I am repulsed by gigantic women means that I do not have to date massively obese girls.
Needless to say I avoided the online dating world for a LONG TIME after this experience.
Worse, I “dated under” once – she was attractive but less than myself, and it was terrible because she always thought I was cheating on her because she was convinced I was too good for her even though I wasn’t and I thought she was fine for me. If you are of average attractiveness looking for a girl of average attractiveness, you might find someone using online dating.
I will not be happy and my dissatisfaction would be harmful to the relationship.
Perhaps because I have learned over time how to make a better profile.
Although I’ve only been doing it for a couple of days so far.
When I arrived at her place I saw this behemoth of a thing, I didn’t even think it could be her.
I said, “I don’t see you” — sure enough, she was literally over 300 lbs, like a beached whale. Out of courtesy I talked to her for a short while and then left, but I should have just left. Turns out her dad had died and she got an eating disorder and gained almost 250 pounds.I don’t know if it’s possible for an ATTRACTIVE person to find another attractive person using online dating.