Dating someone who has cheated before
After a lot of contemplation, I've become absolutely sure that if you love someone and respect someone enough, you cannot cheat on that person. For the first time in my crazy, messed-up love life, I believe that I am truly in love -- madly, head-over-heels kind of love.
The difference with this relationship is that I have a deep and profound respect for my boyfriend. The only time I would do something like that would be if I didn't honor him the way that I do.
If you are a person who has cheated on someone and still believes you love that person, you're about to have your ass handed to you. I've always valued my independence and ability to do what I want, but I also enjoy having someone to cuddle and go to dinner with.
She is scared that it’ll happen again and that you’ll do the same to her. The wounds will heal eventually, but it takes constant work on her part and support on yours. But she will become stronger and better, though deep down there will always be a little bit of doubt in herself.A woman who has been cheated on has probably had her self-worth trampled on.She will second guess everything, and if you are dating other women at the same time, she will stay very guarded and possibly withdraw.He treats me beautifully, he challenges me, and he is there for me whenever I need him. I'm repulsed by the thought of letting another guy touch me. The idea of hurting someone I respect so much breaks my heart. If you cheat on your partner, you do not respect him or her enough not to betray stray. Your infidelity is all the proof you need that the two of you are not right for each other. I have loved each and every one of them in my own way. You can certainly care for -- and love -- a person you betray. (You two are in a relationship, after all.)But you don't love him or her . But this is what you need to understand: If you cannot sacrifice the touch of another person -- if you cannot resist the physical urge to screw someone else in favor of honoring your relationship -- you do not value that relationship enough.If you truly loved this person with all of your heart, there would be no one else. It's understandable that you don't want to give this person up. You can feel that love, but it does not burn brightly enough.A woman who has been cheated on will take work and effort. In any case, if you are dating or considering dating a woman who has been betrayed, there are some things you should know and understand.