Dating someone competing company
For all I know, he might have committed to his ex-wife and once he did, it was all downhill.
For that reason, he might believe (on an emotional level) that if he starts defining commitments that the relationship will go downhill.
I have been dating a man for about 5 months and everything is pretty good.
He was married for 10 years and has been divorced for about 2. We go out often, I’ve been introduced to the family and he to mine, and he treats me like I’m his girlfriend.
Being a woman, I accepted his logic and things have been good.
But I believe that things can change as time goes on.
I can’t guarantee it in your situation specifically, but generally speaking things can work out as long as the guy is working through his issues.
It sounds like he’s reluctant because he’s dealing with his own stuff and he wants to make sure that both of you are ready for a relationship.
Take it from me, sometimes a guy can really love a woman and not be ready or in a position to have a relationship.I don’t get that vibe from what you’re talking about here.