Dating for single mums
Don't you wanna be the guy at the receiving end of that? No Biological Clock Ticking At You I hear this from guys all the time: "If I date a woman in her 30s, she wants to know where it's going and when we're getting married and having babies within, like, 3 months!But if I date a woman in her 20s we have nothing in common." Well, guys, here we are! You're not gonna meet them unless this gets serious.The crowd was a mix of college guys and young professionals. And when the topic of my work came up, I told a small group of guys that I was working on an interesting article that required me to tap real-life guys for their opinions on dating single moms. I would absolutely go on a date with a single mom and see where it could lead.I don’t have kids, but I want kids, so if she already has one or two, it would be a bonus.
Forgive the friends and in-laws who you felt deserted you.
There are some seriously outdated misconceptions out there that give single moms a bad rap, like the belief that single mothers are just looking for a dad for their kids (, my kid's dad rocks and I'm not in search for a replacement! When it comes down to it, I really think single moms are the dating world's best kept secret. Low Drama Look, we've had a baby (or two or three), we've been through a divorce...
we're pretty focused on raising our children and supporting our families. We don't have time or the inclination to sweat the smaller stuff.
You're looking at an amazing array of women whose biological clocks have ticked and tocked and likely don't want or need more babies. So, if you fall in love with us, you're gonna have to be willing to take on all that that means, but in the meantime, we just wanna have fun. We Are Powerhouses I personally believe that single moms are some of the most powerful women on earth.
We have stood strong while everything around us crumbled, whether we made that call or not. If you're looking for a woman you can respect and honor, you'll find her in the single mothers pool. No Whining, No Games Look, we may call you out when we feel you're not satisfying us or living up to our expectations, and yeah, we're human and we're women, so you won't always understand us, but we will never be whiners and over-complainers. At the end of the day, we want a glass of wine and a grown-up conversation. We want clear communication and we'll give it back to you in spades.I went out with a girlfriend in Montclair, NJ, to a fun place called Just Jakes. It was a little deceiving, sure, but I thought telling the guys I was a single mom would influence their answers—and I wanted raw thoughts.