Dating emotionally immature man
The biggest problem, though, is that he can't be serious.
You're trying to have a conversation as adults and he can't stop cracking jokes.
You can't force him to accept responsibility for his actions, but you can try to make him come to that conclusion himself by refusing to go along with his constant blame game.
A major telltale sign of a guy who is emotionally immature is that he gets angry quickly and takes a long time to defuse. If your guy will explode over seemingly little things and continue to let it bother him for days or weeks after the incident, he's probably emotionally immature.
Remaining calm and trying to calm him down, but never giving in to his demands, is the best way to counteract this aspect of an emotionally immature guy.
If your guy ever talks about how nice he is right after he made a rude comment about a stranger walking by, he's probably emotionally immature.
A guy who is emotionally immature likes to be surrounded by people but he doesn't have a ton of friends.If his mom knows more about your relationship than you do, he probably needs that connection to fuel his emotional immaturity. If his relationship with his mom is beyond the usual, tell him that you're worried he's too attached to her.Because he's emotionally immature, his reaction will probably be hostile and he will probably accuse you of being petty or jealous. You don't have to make him choose between you and his mom - you don't want to totally destroy his relationship with the woman. And if he refuses, well, maybe he and his mom should be in the long term relationship and you should find a boyfriend or husband who has a healthy, not weird, relationship with his mother.A guy who is a total mommy's boy can be endearing until he becomes your long term boyfriend or husband.Then his attachment with the woman who birthed him gets to be weird.The second thing is to give him responsibilities and let him feel the consequences. He won't be laughing when he has to shower in the dark because he was too busy cracking jokes to pay attention to the bill's due date.