Dating a guy and a girl at the same time
Well girl, you can finally drop those tense shoulders and r-e-l-a-x.We girls (most of us) have a natural, deep-seated respect for the sexuality of another woman.Unfortunately, when you finally muster up the courage to hop off the straight train and get off at station LGBTQ - there's no welcome committee presenting you with a “how to” guide -- and navigating the girl-on-girl scene is .OK, I get it; it’s not like you’ve never been at a DATE before.If we happen to engage in a night of intoxicated, mind-blowing sex after the date #1, we won't tweet about what an easy harlot you are.It will only strengthen our connection to you, because sex between two women is a remarkably collaborative, shared experience.
We will usually attempt to pick a place that the very essence of our personalities.
For it's your first look into the window of who we are, and we’re well aware of it.
If a girl picks out a cute, locally-sourced indie gem in Brooklyn, it’s very telling -- same goes for sports bar, posh hotel bar, dimly-lit lounge, or a five star f*cking restaurant.
While men are notoriously terrified of settling down and missing out on the debaucheries of the bachelor life, the very opposite is true for a girl.
We are nesters by nature, and constantly have to fight the urge to make you a copy of our keys that fine moment we matched on Tinder (don’t all modern love stories start on Tinder? If you neglect to escape the dreaded curse of the U-Haul, and find yourself moved in by date #2 -- by the time you reach date #5, you will probably be blissfully married (or "domestic partners" depending on how repressed a state you live in) with two adopted adult cats and a thriving organic kale garden you and your partner affectionately tend to in matching flannel (JK... By date #7, you will have filed for divorce, and be in the throes of a vicious custody battle over the two adopted adult cats.On the flip, there is always the fear that if you wait too long to put out, he will get bored and flee the country of you, immigrating to a new girl.