Blogs on dating a married man
In all of this, you must also ponder how he speaks of his current wife.Are his references to her respectful and honest and definitive of why he no longer feels he wants to be married to her?Try to regain some balance in this totally unbalanced situation.be ready to see him each and every time he can slip away because he suddenly is available unexpectedly.Do you want to be able to introduce your partner to your friends and family and spend holidays and special occasions together?If these are things necessary to your happiness, you must take them into account when deciding whether to continue your affair or not.
It is a volatile and potentially painful situation you are in. If this is the case, he respects women and is probably being honest about how the marriage went wrong. You could potentially spend years in the shadows of his life loving him and hoping for change only to find, in the end, all of your love was in vain.If, on the other hand, he runs her down and blames the failure of the marriage solely on her you need to be extremely careful. It is best to avoid the situation altogether if possible, but if you find yourself in this predicament, you are not alone.You need to be realistic, these situations can and do drag on for years.Set a time limit in your mind as to how long you are willing to wait on the sidelines keeping your own life on hold and stick to it.Unless you want to spend decades as the other woman, as Katherine Hepburn did, only to have the married man you love die married to his wife, bring up the discussion of divorce early on in your affair.