17 year old dating
Don't be afraid to make her upset, you know her interests better then her, and she will thank you one day.
So theres this girl i like, and i know she likes me.
Does she have positive male attention from father type figures in her life? She married someone else at 20 and never developedvto independant adulthood.
If he is a MAN he will wait until she finishes year 12 to approach her again.
I have been making a point to make sure my daughter still hangs out with her girlfriends as not to be totally consumed by this boy. Perhaps talk to a domestic violence support group of some kind.
But I have found out that for the last month everytime she has gone out with her friends she is actually meeting up with him! If she doesn't answer his calls straight away her will start txting her (she will have 5 texts in a matter of minutes ranging from "where are you babe" to "why don't you love me anymore" to "I will die without you" then back to "I'm sorry babe") and he was constantly calling and texting her during her all girls Bday party last week which made her feel guilty that he wasn't invited. Also if he has done anything that would be called rape, so if you have any confirmation press charges!
If i was you i would probly restrict outside activities and take her phone from her chamge her number and get rid of the boyfriend . I wish to God my mother had stepped in, but...have never had a close open relationship. But she never stepped in, or half heartedly did, and you know what?
I would get her into some kind of sport or group or community activity too, maybe even take her to talk to other women who have been in controlling relationships, she needs to know him contstanlty msging her isn't love it's abuse and she needs to learn that asap!
I have sooooo, soo many regrets from that age and I wish to God I'd had a different set of parents. No actual full sexual experience but he managed her life, got her to quit school after year 10 and get a dead end job so they could marry when she was 18.
As far as I was concerned if she didn't stop me then she didn't give a shit about what I did. Id knock this on the head quick smart but be mindful it might happen again. My parents planted the foot at that stage and broke it up.
Iv been told by numerous people plus i can sort of tell anyway.
Problem is shes only just turned 17 about a month ago and i am 20 now, turning 21 early next year.He reported the guy to the police who took it seriously. He could be charged with child abuse if it goes further. I know have a 14 year old daughter and she is not allowed boys over she does not go out by herself very often at all her phone and fb arw checked by me daily and if i suspect tampering with messages she loses fb and her phone.